God Gave You Mary …

Very often, someone has come up to us and said, “God gave you Mary because He must have known that you would be able to handle parenting a child with a disability,” or some variation of that statement.  While we know that people mean well and are trying to be encouraging to us, it sometimes is hard to hear.  Mostly, it is hard to hear because we respectfully disagree. We disagree in two ways.  First, and of less importance, we disagree with the statement because it seems to imply that [...]

By |2018-10-18T13:38:03-05:00October 18th, 2018|help, perspective, Uncategorized|5 Comments

To help or not to help, that is the question!

A commonly asked questions that we hear from friends who don’t have a child with a disability is, “Should we offer to help someone when their disabled child has a need, or will offering help offend the parents?”  We generally know how we would answer that question, but this is an individual decision.  We would love to hear some feedback on this, as we think this topic might provide for an interesting conversation! Because Mary is non-verbal, she often tries to communicate her wishes and desires through her behavior, more [...]

By |2018-10-11T15:46:54-05:00October 11th, 2018|help, perspective, teamwork, thankful, Uncategorized|Comments Off on To help or not to help, that is the question!

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